Children are the innocent victims of divorce, often facing long-term emotional and psychological effects.

Divorce Protection Coaching Program Outline

Welcome to the Divorce Protection Coaching Program! This 20-session program is designed to help struggling couples overcome common challenges in marriage and build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship. Throughout the program, we will use sports analogies to help you both think about your marriage in a new way and develop the skills and strategies you need to succeed.

Session 1: Goal Setting and Vision

In the first session, we will help you create a shared vision for your marriage and set clear, achievable goals to guide your progress.

Session 2: The Importance of Understanding Man's Needs

In this session, we will discuss the unique needs that men bring to a marriage and help you both understand how to meet those needs in healthy and productive ways.

Session 3: The Importance of Understanding Women's Needs

In this session, we will do the same for women's needs and help you both understand how to support your partner in meeting those needs.

Session 4: Communication: The Scoreboard

Poor communication can lead to misunderstandings, resentment, and even bigger problems. In this session, we will explore ways to improve communication and help you develop healthy communication habits.

Session 5: Parenting Differences: The Two-Minute Warning

Disagreements about parenting styles can create tension and lead to arguments. We will explore strategies for resolving conflicts related to parenting and developing a unified approach to raising your children.

Session 6: A Lack of Sexual Intimacy: The Huddle

A lack of physical intimacy can lead to feelings of emotional distance and even infidelity. In this session, we will discuss ways to increase intimacy, build emotional connections, and improve your sexual relationship.

Session 7: Outside Influences: The Home Field Advantage

Disagreements with in-laws, friends, and family can create tension in a marriage. We will explore strategies for setting boundaries, managing conflicts, and protecting your marriage from negative outside influences.

Session 8: Life Transitions: The Halftime Show

Major life transitions, such as getting married or having a child, can create stress and uncertainty in a marriage. In this session, we will discuss ways to support each other through life changes and strengthen your connection.

Session 9: Conflicting Priorities: The Playbook

When partners have different goals in life, it can create tension in a marriage. We will explore ways to identify and align your priorities as a couple and work together towards common goals.

Session 10: Balancing Work and Family: The Time Out

Juggling careers and family responsibilities can be overwhelming and stressful for many couples. In this session, we will discuss strategies for managing time, setting boundaries, and prioritizing self-care.

Session 11: Trust Issues: The Penalty Box

When trust is broken, it can take time and effort to rebuild. We will explore ways to repair trust, rebuild intimacy, and create a stronger, more resilient relationship.

Session 12: The Five Love Languages: The MVP

In this session, we will explore Gary Chapman's theory of the five love languages and help you both identify your own preferred love language and that of your partner.

Session 13: Couples Energy Management: The Training Room

In this session, we will explore what it means to manage your energy as a couple and give you the tools to create a plan that allows you to thrive both individually and together.

Session 14: Forgiveness, Resentment, and the Burn Book

In this session, we will explore the power of forgiveness and help you develop strategies for letting go of resentment and other negative emotions. We will also introduce you to the burn book technique for healing emotional wounds.

Session 15: Past Hurts: The Replay

In this session, we will explore the role that past hurts can play in your relationship and help you develop strategies for healing and moving forward.

Session 16: The Relationship Wheel: Balancing Life and Work

In this session, we will introduce you to the relationship wheel, a tool for assessing and balancing different aspects of your life. We will help you identify areas of imbalance and develop strategies to create a healthier, more fulfilling life as a couple.

Session 17: Using the Enneagram for Couples: The Draft

In this session, we will introduce you to the Enneagram, a powerful tool for understanding personality types. We will help you identify your own Enneagram type and explore ways to use this knowledge to create a stronger, more compassionate relationship.

Session 18-20: Customization and Progress Check-ins

In the final sessions of the program, we will work with you to customize the program to your specific needs and goals and provide ongoing support and progress check-ins as you continue to work towards building a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.

If you are ready to protect your marriage from divorce and invest in your future

Invest in Your Marriage to Achieve the Best Possible Outcome

Statistics show that around 50% of marriages end in divorce - and unfortunately, these divorces often come with a heavy financial and emotional toll.

Program Details

• Sessions with Dr. Hines can be in person or via video depending on availability.

• You and your partner will complete two couples assessments: one before the initial sessions, and one halfway through the program to track progress.

• You will receive two couples playbooks with essential tools and strategies for building a stronger relationship.

• You will receive weekly marriage motivation emails to keep you inspired and motivated throughout the program.

• The program will begin with a 120-minute initial couple session to get to know each other and establish goals.

• You and your partner will receive four individual 90-minute life mapping sessions to assess personal growth and overcome obstacles.

• The program consists of 15 couples sessions, each 70 minutes in length, to explore essential topics for building a healthier relationship.

• You will receive twelve months of date night ideas to keep the romance alive.

• You will receive a couples discussion guide to encourage meaningful conversations and deeper connections.

• You will receive a 115 funny "have you ever" guide for couples to encourage lighthearted conversation and laughter.

• You will explore Gary Chapman's theory of the five love languages in two sessions to understand each other's needs and preferences.

• You will receive weekly couples tips to your email to help you apply what you learned during sessions.

• You will receive two Little Black Books of Date Nights with ideas for fun and creative date nights.

• You will receive a weekly 30-minute lifeline call in between sessions to address any concerns or questions you may have.

Program Benefits

By participating in this program, you and your partner will:

• Gain valuable insight into each other's needs, preferences, and communication styles.

• Learn how to resolve conflicts and communicate more effectively.

• Develop a deeper appreciation for each other and a stronger emotional connection.

• Explore strategies for balancing work, family, and personal growth.

• Establish clear goals for your future as a couple and as individuals.

Testimonials

"What a fantastic program! Johnathan is a true expert in the field, and his guidance has helped us to rekindle the spark in our marriage. We highly recommend this program to any couple looking to improve their relationship." - Jane and Jack

"Johnathan is an excellent coach! He has taught us how to communicate more effectively, let go of resentment, and focus on our shared goals. We're so grateful for this program!" - Sarah and Tom

Take Action

If you're ready to invest in your marriage and protect your relationship from divorce, contact us today to learn more about the Divorce Protection Coaching Program with Johnathan Hines. Together, we can help you build a stronger, more fulfilling future as a couple.

Why You Should Apply Now!

• You have the potential to make a real difference.
• You can contribute your unique skills and abilities.
• You have the opportunity to gain meaningful experience.
• You could open up a world of possibilities for yourself and others.

Divorce Rates by State: A Comprehensive Analysis

Divorce rates in the United States vary widely depending on various factors such as economic conditions, cultural norms, and regional differences. In this article, we will examine the divorce rates in every state from highest to lowest, discuss the top 10 reasons for divorce, and highlight the top 8 side effects on children after a divorce.

Divorce Rates by State

1. Nevada: Nevada has the highest divorce rate in the country at 4.5 per 1,000 population (CDC, 2018). The high rate of divorce in Nevada is attributed to its lenient marriage and divorce laws, the transient nature of its population, and the stresses associated with the state's predominant industries, such as gambling and entertainment.

2. Oklahoma: With a divorce rate of 4.1 per 1,000 population (CDC, 2018), Oklahoma ranks second among states with the highest divorce rates. Factors contributing to this high rate include lower household incomes, higher poverty levels, and lower educational attainment.

3. Arkansas: The divorce rate in Arkansas stands at 3.7 per 1,000 population (CDC, 2018). High poverty levels, lower educational attainment, and conservative cultural values are some of the factors contributing to the high divorce rate in this state.

4. Alabama: Alabama's divorce rate is 3.6 per 1,000 population (CDC, 2018). Factors such as low household incomes, high poverty levels, and limited access to resources for struggling couples contribute to the high divorce rate in Alabama.

5. Kentucky: Kentucky has a divorce rate of 3.5 per 1,000 population (CDC, 2018). Lower household incomes, higher poverty levels, and lower educational attainment are some of the factors that contribute to the high divorce rate in this state.

6. Tennessee: The divorce rate in Tennessee is 3.4 per 1,000 population (CDC, 2018). Factors such as lower household incomes, higher poverty levels, and cultural differences are some of the reasons for the high divorce rate in this state.

7. Mississippi: Mississippi's divorce rate stands at 3.3 per 1,000 population (CDC, 2018). The state's high poverty levels, lower educational attainment, and conservative cultural values contribute to its high divorce rate.

8. Georgia: With a divorce rate of 3.1 per 1,000 population (CDC, 2018), Georgia ranks eighth among states with the highest divorce rates. Factors contributing to this high rate include lower household incomes, higher poverty levels, and cultural differences.

9. Florida: The divorce rate in Florida is 3.0 per 1,000 population (CDC, 2018). Factors such as the transient nature of its population, high cost of living, and cultural differences contribute to the high divorce rate in this state.

10. Texas: Texas has a divorce rate of 2.9 per 1,000 population (CDC, 2018). Factors that contribute to the high divorce rate in this state include lower household incomes, higher poverty levels, and cultural differences.

The states with the lowest divorce rates are New Jersey, Massachusetts, and New York, with rates of 1.6, 1.7, and 1.8 per 1,000 population, respectively (CDC, 2018).

Top 10 Reasons for Divorce

1. Lack of commitment: A study by the National Center for Family & Marriage Research (2013) found that 75% of participants cited a lack of commitment as a major reason for divorce.

2. Infidelity: According to a study published in the Journal of Marriage and Family (2017), 59.6% of participants cited infidelity as a major reason for divorce.

3. Communication problems: A study by the American Psychological Association (2010) found that communication problems were a significant factor in 56% of divorces.

4. Financial issues: A study by Kansas State University (2013) found that financial disagreements are a strong predictor of divorce, with couples who argue about finances being more likely to divorce.

5. Substance abuse: According to a study published in the Journal of Social Work Practice in the Addictions (2014), substance abuse is a major contributing factor in 34.6% of divorces.

6. Domestic violence: A study by the National Institute of Justice (2000) found that domestic violence was a factor in 23.5% of divorces.

7. Incompatibility: A study by the National Center for Family & Marriage Research (2013) found that 19.3% of participants cited incompatibility as a major reason for divorce.

8. Mental health issues: According to a study published in the Journal of Family Issues (2015), mental health issues are a significant factor in 18.2% of divorces.

9. Lack of support from family and friends: A study by the American Psychological Association (2010) found that lack of support from family and friends was a contributing factor in 17.3% of divorces.

10. Premarital cohabitation: A study published in the Journal of Marriage and Family (2002) found that couples who cohabit before marriage are more likely to divorce than those who do not.

Top 8 Side Effects on Children After Divorce

1. Emotional distress: Children of divorced parents often experience feelings of sadness, anger, and anxiety (Journal of Youth and Adolescence, 2011).

2. Academic performance: Studies show that children of divorced parents tend to have lower academic performance than children of non-divorced parents (Journal of Marriage and Family, 2010).

3. Behavioral problems: Children of divorced parents are more likely to exhibit behavioral problems such as aggression and delinquency (Journal of Family Psychology, 2006).

4. Lower self-esteem: Divorce can lead to lower self-esteem in children, as they may internalize feelings of guilt and blame for the divorce (Journal of Youth and Adolescence, 2001).

5. Difficulty forming relationships: Children of divorced parents may struggle with forming and maintaining healthy relationships in adulthood (Journal of Family Issues, 2007).

6. Increased risk of substance abuse: Studies show that children of divorced parents are more likely to engage in substance abuse (Journal of Studies on Alcohol and Drugs, 2012).

7. Mental health issues: Children of divorced parents are at a higher risk of developing mental health issues such as depression and anxiety (Journal of Child Psychology and Psychiatry, 2011).

8. Economic instability: Divorce often leads to economic instability for families, which can have long-term negative effects on children's well-being (Journal of Marriage and Family, 2009).

In conclusion, understanding the factors contributing to high divorce rates and the potential side effects on children can help couples, policymakers, and professionals work together to develop strategies and resources to support struggling marriages and minimize the negative impact of divorce on children.